Career, sport, finances) and applying them to your dating behaviour.Dating strategically gets you off the dating merry-go-round and into a more empowered, confident and successful state.1. Rather than countless, meaningless date nights, substitute in a few ME nights.
And a 5 gets stuck with a 5 and they live undead-ly ever after? We are not linear, we are not commodities, we are not mere sums of traits, at least not ones that can be measured objectively — and having to say this has me concerned about your ability to hear it.
There is clearly a disconnection between what we say we want and what we do about it.
A contradiction between our dating goals and our choice of actions.
In fact, conversations with my clients indicate that it leads to frustration, confusion, self-doubt and a loss of confidence and motivation.
You wouldn’t approach your career in a haphazard, random manner would you?